November 23, 2006

A time to kill ...

A friend at court asked me:

Cindy: Do u have boyfriend?

Me: (laugh) Haha..a lot

Cindy:No laa not that boy-friends..I mean a boyfriend..a very special one.

Me: At this moment..no..dun have one..u?

Cindy: No, i dun have one either. Haiya, nowadays it's difficult to trust a guy la.They not really sincere in a relationship. Double faces. Its hard to find a guy who love u as who u are not what u are. Talking from the experience (chuckles)

Me: Uh-huh..maybe,but not all like that i think. Maybe u still not found the right one yet. You never know.

Cindy: True.Maybe laa. Hey, have u ever heard of ying and yang?

Me: Ying and yang..hmm..I heard that often in kung fu movies, but dont know what the hell is that.(Laugh)

Cindy:You know.. Ancient Chinese scholars believe that there are two forces in our universe.Ying and Yang.Ying represents the female and Yang represents the male. Both must be in balance.Like in a relationship, the chemistry should exist between two persons; they should complement each other. So the relationship will last longer.

Me: Oh like that eh. But as Muslims we do believe in jodoh. God has decided one for us before we were born. When the jodoh arrives, that person will be a perfect partner for us. Good or bad, we should accept him/her with open arms. Accept their weaknesses. Love them unconditionally. It is some sort like a gift from God.And some say love is a force of nature,it should come naturally..cannot be forced..right?

Cindy: Yeah.Jodoh.That makes sense. But after all boyfriends is not a priority. So many people to love, many things to concentrate, no time to think about guys la. Without them we can still live what.Kan?

Me: Haha.Yep.So many people to love.100% agree on that.

And the conversation ended there.Hmm..



Sweet words are easy to say,
Sweet things are easy 2 buy,
But sweet people are difficult to find...

5 footprint(s):

nana said...

Ye betol.Byk sgt yang nak kena sayang.Family, kengkawan..ja, thank u smalam sebab lending me your ears.tak tau nak ngadu kat sapa dah.u such a good listener.lepas perasaan rasa lega sikit.sori sangat kacau memalam.

Mazliza~ Aja said...

akak jgnla terlalu dramatik..heheh..kalau call pukul 4 pagi pon saya jwb..huhu

mieyzaihana said...

Aja, masa miey clash dulu Kak Muni penah advice miey, seseorang datang dalam hidup kita atas antara salah satu sebab, because of the reason, the season or for a life time
reason-maybe ade sebab dia nak rapat dengan kita, sebab material ke or sbb yang tak pasti

season- cthnya macam kat universiti, sume orang bercouple and dia dtng tanpa sebab yang jelas, semua orang couple, jadi dia pon nak merasa bnda yang sama

for a lifetime - our destiny. yang betul2 ikhlas dengan kita dan nak jaga kita seumur hidup.

dan katanya lagi, jangan lah kita prejudis dengan seseorang, sebab kita mesti percaya masih wujud lelaki yang baik, contohnya ayah kita, adik lelaki kita, dan abang2 kita, diorang seorang yang baik, jadi, itu semua tak mustahi.

so Aja, semoga bertemu dengan soulmate Aja, yang akan menjaga hingga akhir hayat kita. Miey doakan.=)

Mazliza~ Aja said...

yup miey, tq for the advice.so kena ada second thought ni b4 nk accept orang.susah2. tp msh wujud lelaki yg baik tu mmg stuju sgt2.My dad is great so are my beloved brothers.

yg ni utk miey dan diri sndiri jgk..

Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best. v(^_^)

mieyzaihana said...

Thanks aja =) kawan yang baik sentiasa menunjukkan jalan semasa gelap..=) nice wordings..

teringat the old saying, "if you love someone: set them free, if they come back: great
but if not: then it was never meant to be!

so, Aja, doakan miey =)

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